How I am is because it’s who I am. Don’t shit on me because how I am doesn’t fit your agenda of turning society upside down.
“Trans” encompasses almost anyone who doesn’t identify with the gender assignment given to them at birth. It is the superset term that includes transgender, genderqueer/non-binary, agender, and other individuals who are transsexual, but refuse to undergo HRT and sex change surgeries.
More than mere gender variance, being trans leads to a condition known as “ gender dysphoria”, where you were born one sex, but wish to live as a member of the other.
The major difference between transsexualism and transgenderism is that transsexuals desire to undergo treatment to live as members of the opposite sex, whereas transgenders (usually non-binary or no-op) identify as a third- or alt-gender identity.
You get for a trans* person what you would for anyone else. ASK!